Lay or Lie?

What Is the Difference between "Lay" and "Lie"?

"Lay" and "lie" are easy to confuse (especially when talking about horizontal positioning).
  • "Lay" means to place in a horizontal position. For example:
    • Every morning, he lays her dressing gown on the bed. correct tick
  • "Lie" means to be in a horizontal position. (Beware! The past tense is "lay.") For example:
    • In the evenings, I lie on my sofa and listen to music. correct tick
    • When I was young, I lay on my sofa and listened to music. correct tick
    • ("Lay" is the past tense of "lie." Beware! This is the main reason for the confusion between "to lie" and "to lay.")
  • "Lie" also means to speak an untruth. For example:
    • I lie for you all the time. correct tick
lay or lie?

Table Showing the Forms

The table below shows the various forms of "to lay" and both meanings of "to lie":
Present TensePast TenseParticiples
To lay (to place in a horizontal position)
  • I lay the ruler on the material.
  • The waiter lays the cutlery on the table.
  • I laid the ruler on the material.
  • The waiter laid the cutlery on the table.
  • I am laying the ruler on the material.
  • (present participle)
  • The waiter has laid the cutlery on the table
  • (past participle)
    To lie (to tell an untruth)
  • I lie to save myself.
  • John lies all the time.
  • I lied to save myself.
  • John lied all the time.
  • I am lying to save myself.
  • (present participle)
  • John has lied in the past.
  • (past participle)
    To lie (to be in a horizontal position)
  • I lie and listen to music.
  • (The term "lie down" is more common than just "lie," but they mean the same.)
  • The dog lies if you show him a cookie.
  • I lay and listened to music.
  • The dog lay if you showed him a cookie.
  • I am lying and listening to music.
  • (present participle)
  • The dog has lain long enough for that cookie.
  • (past participle)

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    More about "Lay" and "Lie"

    There is often confusion over the verbs "to lay" and "to lie." The confusion arises because "to lay" [to place something in a horizontal position] and "to lie" [to be in a horizontal position] have similar meanings. The confusion is not helped by the past tense of "to lie" (when it means to be in a horizontal position) being "lay."

    Here are the most common terms with "to lie" and "to lay":
    • To lay something flat (e.g., a table cloth) correct tick
    • To lie flat (i.e., to be in a lying position) correct tick
    • (Remember that "He lay flat" is correct for the past tense.)
    • To lie low (to keep a low profile) correct tick
    • ("He lay low" is correct for the past tense.)
    • To lie down (to get into a lying position) correct tick
    • ("He lay down" is correct for the past tense.)
    • To lie ahead (to be in the future or farther down the road) correct tick
    • ("It lay ahead" is correct for the past tense.)

    To Lay (Past Tense: Laid)

    "To lay" means to place something in a position, especially a horizontal position. For example:
    • The maids lay the table for dinner at 7 o'clock. correct tick
    • The policeman urged the boys to lay their weapons on the floor. correct tick
    • Put your hands up, and lie down your weapons. wrong cross
    • (This should be "lay down.")
    • We are expecting our white spotted bamboo shark to lay eggs in April. correct tick
    The past tense of "lay" is "laid." For example:
    • Annabelle laid the puppy in the basket. correct tick
    • They laid the body on the bank and notified the coroner. correct tick
    The past participle is also "laid." For example:
    • According to the pamphlet, we should have laid old sheets on the floor to prevent paint splashes landing on the decking. correct tick
    • A teenager killed by a shark in northern New South Wales has been laid to rest. correct tick

    To Lie (Past Tense: Lied)

    The verb "to lie" (with the past tense "lied") means "to say something untrue in order to deceive." For example:
    • Did you lie about your age to join the Army? correct tick
    • Your eyes betray you when you lie. correct tick
    • My reflexologist says I am lying about my health. He says that my feet, however, do not lie. correct tick
    • (The present participle of "to lie" is "lying")
    Remember that the past tense of "to lie" in this meaning is "lied." For example:
    • Malcolm lied his way past the doormen. correct tick
    • Billy lied so often about his boxing achievements, he forgot the truth. correct tick
    The past participle of "to lie" is also "lied":
    • Malcolm had lied his way past the doormen. correct tick

    To Lie (Past Tense: Lay)

    The verb "to lie" (with the past tense "lay") means "to be in, or move into, a horizontal position." For example:
    • I think I'll lie down for 20 minutes after lunch. correct tick
    • Lie on your back and look at the stars. correct tick
    • Clutching his betting slip, Mr. Reynolds screamed, "Get up! Don't just lie there." However, Paul was just lying on his back with one eye on the referee while the count went ahead. correct tick
    • (The present participle of to "to lie" is "lying.")
    • My problem lies in reconciling my gross habits with my net income.correct tick
    • (As in this example, "to lie" can simply mean "to be.")
    Remember that the past tense of "to lie" in this meaning is "lay." For example:
    • An alibi? I just lay on the sofa all night, watching The Simpsons. correct tick
    • The snow lay on the field all week. correct tick
    The past participle of "to lie" in this meaning is "lain." For example:
    • Mark had lain at the foot of the knoll for hours. correct tick
    • How often have I lain beneath rain on a strange roof, thinking of home? correct tick

    The Main Culprit

    The most common mistake is to use "lie" instead of "lay." If you remember that "lie" cannot take a direct object, then you will eliminate this error.
    • To lay your head on the pillow. correct tick
    • To lie your head on the pillow. wrong cross
    • (In these examples, "your head" is the direct object. Remember that "lie" cannot have a direct object.)
    • My chicken lays eggs. correct tick
    • My chicken lies eggs. wrong cross
    • (In these examples, "eggs" is the direct object. Remember that "lie" cannot have a direct object.)

    The Other Culprits

    "Lay" (the past tense of "to lie") is not common, and some people are tempted (incorrectly) to use "laid." For example:
    • The crocodile laid still for hours. wrong cross
    • (This should be be "lay.")
    "Lain" is quite a rare word, and some people are tempted (incorrectly) to use "laid" for this too. For example:
    • The snow had laid on the field all week. wrong cross
    • (This should be "lain.")
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    This page was written by Craig Shrives.